How
do you build develop relationships? What is appropriate and customary follow
up? This is not nearly as difficult as most people think, you just need a
variety of tools and options.
Start
with identifying target companies, then look for individuals that you have
something in common with, such as similar roles, education, personal interests,
or membership in an industry association.
There
are many ways to begin and build a relationship including, but not limited to:
- Personal, face to face introductions/meetings
- Phone
- Social Media (LinkedIn/Facebook)
Every contact must be specific and focused. Take a few minutes to understand a bit about the person and their background, then start with a simple message, “we are in the same industry and I would like to introduce myself and see if there is anything I can do to help you.” Sharing industry news, articles and contacts will usually be very well received.
There
is a fine line between appropriate networking and being an annoying stalker. Tenured
Headhunter, Tom Johnston, shares his internal system for contacting people.
(A)
– This is for people that are high potential contacts that hold a very high
place in our world. These are key decision makers. Make a point to
touch base using a variety of methods at least once a month.
(B)
– These are good contacts, but not quite as good as the A’s. Following up
once a quarter is fine.
(C)
– These contacts might have long term value, but they are not considered a
prime contact, so reaching out and touching base once or twice a year is fine.
(D)
– These are the people that you have no interest in building and maintaining a
relationship. They are either not in your industry or they are someone
you do not want to build a relationship with. Simply delete them.
One
of the most common mistakes people make is to go out and actively build a
relationship, then land the new role and forget everyone until you want
something again. People hate that!
Never
leave a message to “Please Call Me”. When you leave a message for someone to
call you, you are giving them control. They might call you back,
but if they do not, we start doubting ourselves, question our relationship and
making that next call is very difficult. When reaching out, simply
explain why your calling, offer your contact number if they have a chance to
call you back, then tell them exactly when you will call them back and then
make that call. Repeat until you get them on the phone. Never give
up control of the process.